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off the highway.

mjkimpan  —  January 7, 2015 — Leave a comment

offthehighway

my friend tony kriz (who has a new book called Aloof! coming out this tuesday – pre-order it here!) has launched an amazing video blog series called Off the Highway – which already includes some phenomenal individuals and thinkers – folks like the author of The Shack, william paul young; lisa sharon harper from Sojourners; new york times bestselling author frank schaeffer; leroy barber from Word Made Flesh and many more…including yours truly.

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2 conferences.

mjkimpan  —  January 5, 2015 — Leave a comment

conferences
as one might have noticed, it’s been awhile since i’ve posted on the blog.

two months, in fact.

it’s been pretty hectic, both personally and professionally. hectic, but rewarding. more on that in some following posts. for now, i want to highlight a couple of conferences i had the privilege of speaking at during the beginning of november.

i had the opportunity to participate in two conferences discussing same sex relationships and the church – the NINES online conference and subsequent closed-door conversations in nashville, and The Reformation Project in washington dc.

The NINES is an online conference for predominantly conservative pastors, put on by the team at Leadership Network. In addition to speaking on their LIVE panel discussion in day two and submitting this pre-recorded video Continue Reading…

potandkettle

after initially addressing our culture’s addiction to answers we continued our series on sacred cow tipping last week by addressing the inherent exclusivity of church membership and how our application of this tradition not only hinders our ability to love the Other, but unintentionally creates and facilitates an environment of stigmatization, ostracization and marginalization – eventually leading to the dehumanization and demonization of the Other.

today, we’ll explore the dangerous and innate hypocrisy of the subtle ‘hierarchy of sins’ which surprisingly allows room for ‘process’ on sins to which we’re most likely to succumb, and simultaneously provides reason for an outright rejection of those guilty of ‘sinning’ in ways we deem unlikely temptations for ourselves. Continue Reading…

membersonly

last week, we continued our series on sacred cow tipping by acknowledging our culture’s addiction to answers. today’s post will grapple with the inherent exclusivity of church membership and how our application of this tradition not only hinders our ability to love the Other, but unintentionally creates and facilitates ann environment of stigmatization, ostracization and marginalization – eventually leading to the dehumanization and demonization of the Other.

next, we’ll explore the dangerous and innate hypocrisy of the subtle ‘hierarchy of sins’ which surprisingly allows room for ‘process’ on sins to which we’re most likely to succumb, and simultaneously an outright rejection of those we deem unlikely temptations.

finally, we’ll explore together new ways to invite and participate in community with those with whom we disagree in areas critical to our faith and core to our identity.

so then, the inherent exclusivity of church membership ::

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answeraddict


this is a long one… bear with me.

as promised in my previous post, we’re exploring some sacred cows in need of tipping – beginning with our culture’s addiction to answers. as this series continues we’ll grapple with the inherent exclusivity of church membership and how our application of this tradition (better reserved for private golf clubs and credit card reward programs than churches) not only hinders our ability to love the Other, but unintentionally creates and facilitates ann environment of stigmatization, ostracization and marginalization – eventually leading to the dehumanization and demonization of the Other. Continue Reading…

cowtipping

prior to coming to The Marin Foundation, i lived for a few short years in central illinois. during that time i became familiar with a practice known as ‘cow-tipping’ – a favorite pastime of rural adolescents, during which they will sneak up on an unsuspecting cow and push it over for entertainment. some say cow-tipping is impossible. others claim to have successfully tipped many-a-cow. the debate rages on.

i kid you not.

while i avoided ever engaging in such an activity (for fear of a response from PETA or being charged by an angry bull, i can’t accurately determine), i suppose in my more gracious moments i can understand the draw. i also can’t imagine cows are easy to tip over…and once you successfully get one to fall, i suspect you’d want to run away – and fast.

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stirring the pot.

mjkimpan  —  August 7, 2014 — 9 Comments

stirringpot

with increasing frequency in the past several weeks and months, the media has paid particular attention to the spaces we at The Marin Foundation inhabit on a daily basis- the disconnect between social, political and religious conservatives and the broader LGBTQ community. twitter timelines, facebook feeds and comment sections are laden with the polarizing back-and-forth, us/them language, with accusations of bigotry or deceit being lobbed back and forth. even (perhaps especially?) in religious news service spaces, the conversation has reached a fever pitch. Continue Reading…

for parents.

mjkimpan  —  July 15, 2014 — Leave a comment

90days

last month, The Marin Foundation partnered with FreedHearts Ministries and Unconditional Ministries to host our first ever conference for christian parents of LGBTQ children. parents came to hear from, worship with and experience community with other christian parents who are learning to love their children unconditionally without having to sacrifice their faith.

TMF staff member Laura Statesir wrote a brief summary of the conference here, including a number of quotes from parents who attended the conference.

but not everyone can make it to chicago – and next june is nearly a year away. that’s why i’m proud to endorse an amazing resource for parents that came out earlier this summer.

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on the interwebs…

mjkimpan  —  July 7, 2014 — 14 Comments

advocate

over the weekend, a number of posts about The Marin Foundation’s I’m Sorry Campaign were written and shared across the interwebs.

all over the interwebs, in fact.

i mentioned in a recent post that we’d been featured on CNN (our friends at red letter christians also picked up my article – just steer clear of the comments – on both sites).

our friend eliel cruz posted his thoughts (and shared some pics!) on one of the largest LGBT publications in the country – advocate.com (steer clear of the comments there, too) and shared this quote from yours truly ::

“In the midst of our country’s cultural shift — where many, including evangelical Christians, are moving toward a more progressive and, I would contend, Christ-centered understanding in discussions surrounding the intersection of faith, gender, and sexuality — there is a need for some folks to acknowledge the harm done toward the LGBTQ community in the name of God and religion,” Marin Foundation executive director Michael Kimpan tells The Advocate.“The ‘I’m Sorry’ campaign provides such an opportunity, to offer an apology and reparations face to face, building bridges of reconciliation between those who once spoke words of hate and intolerance and now desire to speak words — and actions — of love.”

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CNN last year, i wrote a blog post about my experience participating in The Marin Foundation’s I’m Sorry Campaign as we stood in front of these protestors during Chicago’s Gay Pride Parade.

<sidenote :: if you’re unfamiliar with the history of Gay Pride, i highly suggest watching this documentary which outlines the beginning of the LGBT equality movement at the Stonewall Inn in NYC – you can find other helpful documentaries on LGBT history and theology here>

i titled the post LOVE is louder

in spite of the 20 foot tall signs and bullhorns used by the protestors spewing words of hate, our simple sings of love with slogans like ‘I’m Sorry for how the church has treated you’ or ‘God loves you’ spoke volumes.

this year, we brought more people, with bigger signs – and the result was nothing short of extraordinary.

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